My teacher walked into the class with some unusual things – big rocks, a tote bag with something bulging through it, some stones, a bottle of water and weirdest of all – a nylon with sand in it. Mr Gana is one very passionate teacher – almost unpredictable. We all stared at him as he made this very unique entrance. Some of us sniggered because he looked quite funny, struggling with all those things. As some stones dropped, we quickly helped to pick them up.
‘Settle down, quickly,’ he advised. Funny as he sometimes is, Mr Gana is not to be trifled with. We all sat quietly. You could hear a pin drop. What an entry behaviour!
He produced a transparent jar from his tote bag and set it on his table.
‘This is your life,’ he asserted. That’s a strange thing to say to a couple of teenagers. For once, I felt Mr Gana saw through me to know that I felt as empty as that transparent jar. But Mr Gana is not the type of teacher who insults us, so we listened on.
‘Is this jar full?’ he asked. We hesitated, not knowing where he was headed with this question with an answer so obvious. ‘Students, come on, it’s not a trick question.’
‘No,’ we then chorused confidently.
He picked the rocks, which he had piled one on top of the other and filled the glass jar with them.
‘How about now? Is it full?’ he asked.
‘Yes it is,’ ‘Sure,’ were the responses we gave.
He cupped both hands to pack the pieces of stones and poured them into the jar. Then shook the jar. The stones found their way through the spaces between the rocks and all settled into the jar. Not one was left on Mr Gana’s table.
He looked up at us and asked, ‘What do you think? Empty or full?’
By now, we could tell what he was doing. So I said, ‘Just like the stones, I am sure the sands will fall through the spaces between the stones too. Mr Gana smiled. Picked up the sands and poured them into the jar. Just as predicted, they all fit.
That’s when another classmate added, ‘A cup of water should finish the job.’ We all laughed. And Mr Gana demonstrated it.
After this, he asked one final question. ‘Do you think all these would have fit in if I poured the stones first, or the sand before the rocks?’
The answer was an obvious no. With this, Mr Gana admonished us on the importance of putting first things first. None of us could possibly forget that lesson.
In a similar fashion, teachers need to learn to put first things first. I think too many teachers in this part of the world work harder than they work smart. One of the most frequent complaints teachers make is the lack of time. Lack of time to complete the scheme, lack of time to support each learner, lack of time to complete each day’s work (even though school hours are longer these days than they were when we were younger) and even lack of time for themselves.
Truth is, time will never be enough to fit all the things we want to do all at the same time. The trick is knowing what to put first into the jar of life.
Once upon a time, I used to take students’ books home to mark. One term, I decided to try something different. I cut down on corridor talks and office chitchats and chose to only engage in friendly banters after I had marked all books. Of course some friends were offended, but my productivity at work soared and my time with my family was also preserved.
I cannot determine for you what your big rocks, stones, sand or water should be, you would know that better. But we can guess that whatever may have an instant effect on you and the students would be a big rock. I would categorise things like lesson plans, feedback to students, professional development and rest time as big rocks.
Appearing in class unprepared can certainly affect students’ learning outcomes or get you fired. Sometimes, I use the holidays to prepare lessons in advance and weekends to put finishing touches.
Leaving students’ work unmarked will certainly not help them know what to do better. I ensure to give feedback before or during the next lesson.
Professional development for me is ongoing. You can hardly catch me in any school term that I am not learning something new, especially online and in relation to technology. Why? Apart from the fact that my growth depends on it, there’s also the impact it has on my interaction with students, colleagues and parents. I can confidently say that my achievements today are a result of my insatiable appetite for knowledge and the risks I have taken in practising them.
Finally, rest. Sharpen your saw. A blunt knife will require more effort to cut through meat. A sick, absent teacher may cause the students to fail. I know that teachers sometimes blame the school for their lack of rest. But that’s sometimes a one-sided story, which we cannot exhaust in one article. I would only advise that you take the age-old advice: early to bed, early to rise, make a man healthy, wealthy and wise. Sleep early and leave work for early mornings – that’s if you’re not in a traffic-prone city like Lagos though.
I honestly don’t know how Lagosians do it. I hail o!
To be continued…
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35 thoughts on “Rocks, Pebbles, Sand and Water”
The story was quite captivating as it was arresting, even for me. What an entry behavior!
Glad you found it so Mr Anyanwu. Do share any more ways you think the story can be applied.
Wow!!!! I love the story. very vital.
My takeaway is to sit down and plan my life according to my big rocks, small stones, sand, and water. Indeed, planning ahead saves one a lot of stress and makes one look confident. Well done Leke. Now I’m off to check out the worksheet!
Those worksheets are life transforming. More people should fill them like you. It makes the reading practical. I’m glad you mentioned planning… look out for another story I’m working on for that topic.
Yaay can’t wait to read that one. I am your biggest fan!!!!
You certainly are Lois. Thanks for following these 2 weeks now.
Great lesson embellished with artistic ornament! The pen will continue to speak.
🤩 as it did in the days of old and will for the future. Thanks Mr Isiani.
Well noted Mr Amoo. The truth of the matter is that there will still not be enough time,even if I manage to cut down on the corridor chit-chats. We are called to a profession of perfection. On the norm,we grade students in percent and a learner might just lose a valuable one – point for my ‘imperfection’. I have learnt with experience to do my utmost best as an educator and not be too harsh on myself for any slip. I simply learn and evolve. Teaching is a lifelong learning curve!
I think you hit the very essence of the story by saying, there will still not be enough time. Perhaps some water or sand shouldn’t even fit in that jar. And it’s fine. We need to know what to fit in and what to leave out.
We learn everyday. Thanks for commenting twice now.
This is food for thought
It sure is 👍
First off, I love the humour in this story but what is more interesting is that the lessons are so plain and practical as it applies to everyone not just teachers. Thank you Mr Leke for this beautiful piece, I’m off to apply this principle of prioritising what comes first at each point in my life.
Nice one Rejoyce. Actions make a world of difference. Please make sure to check out the Workspace section too. Link is the green banner in the middle of each article.
Interesting read.
Prioritize always and learn as you go on.
Fine summary Kenny. Thanks.
This isis a wonderful piece, thank you Mr. Leke. I’m encouraged and challenged.
Glad you found it so Evans. Thanks for reading.
What an eye opener, set your priority right as a teacher, Great job Leke.
Great point Mercy.
In all we do in life, it is always pertinent that we prioritize. For one to be successful in his field of endeavour, it is germane to put first things first. A man whose house is on fire do not go about chasing bush rat.
Even the Holy Book displayed how God prioritized his creation and on the seventh day, He “Sharpened the Saw”.
Thanks for stopping by again this week Monday. The horse must always be before the cart.
Thank you Mr Leke
Preparation is the key. Do the right thing at the right time.
Adequate Planning, first thing first.
I enjoyed this- Splendid.
Quite deep and insightful, yet relatable and easy to understand. Thanks for sharing.
That’s the idea Ndu. Deep insights shared in bite-sized bits. Maintaining these readings consistently for 3 months will improve the readers’ career and life significantly.
Thank you so much, Mr. Oluwagbemileke Amoo for this great story. Indeed, we need to know what’s really important and work on ensuring we act excellently at all times. I’m off to check out the worksheets.
Oge. You’re absolutely correct. I’ll recommend you check out the Workspaces on previous stories too. They call for deep reflection and are life changing.
I thought the article was about pebbles, rocks, sand, and water. Boy, how wrong could I be! It’s about gems!
Great delivery, Leke!
🤩😊 you found a gem here Bro. Sell all you have and buy it😆. Try out the Workspaces too. They’re invaluable.
What a great lesson!
Thanks Mr Okechukwu.
Thank you, Mr. Leke, I must say this is quite mind-blowing, inspiring, and thought-provoking.
What an engaging entry behavior.
I think my take-home is to reduce the chit chat etc and mark my books within the stipulated given time because I am tired of taking books home and the truth is most times I still bring them back unmarked.
Finally, I don’t get tired of learning new skills, is good to know something about everything. Always have an idea of something.
More grease to your elbow Mr. Amoo, though this is my first time here, I enjoyed this piece of encouragement of course it has added value to my life💯.
Maranatha.
Although is never enough I have to prioritize.
Flora. You have blessed my heart with these words. I got tired of being a beast of books burden. They rarely ever get marked when I take them home.
Please keep taking the daily steps toward your improvement and success.
Welcome to my blog. Take the worksheets that come with each story too. Click the green banner in each story and you’ll be taken to a new page.
Have fun. I look forward to reading about your success story soon.
This is food for thought . Great and inspirational story. You always add value to people. Keep it up Mr Amoo.
Thank you very much. I shall keep adding value as God inspires.